Marriage is one of the most misunderstood concepts of history.
Two people falling in love and wants to be together, but within a couple of years most are divorced.
How is that possible when two people who fall in love get divorced?
Ill try to answer this questions from my point of view.
I am convinced that people marriage in the wrong way.
Its not like two peoples are getting married, its more like two strangers are getting married.
And sometimes it work out but many times, it doesn't work good and the kids will pay the price for it.
That is because two people dont give each other the chance to know each other before they got married.
They get attracted by the powers of their bodys and lost their self by feelings.
While the feelings should be a reaction of what you mind wants and your mind must not want what your feelings desire!
What we see allot are two people falling in love and have as much sex as possible, and after a couple of years many gets annoyed or irritated about each other.
Here is a very simple explanation for it.
And that because those two people let them self lead by their feelings and not by their wisdom.
Their wisdom would say that he/she dont know the stranger and that its better to understand the spirit of someone else.
But many people dont think like this, because they dont learned to think like this.
The first thing we all should learn is who you are.
And how your body works.
And how your feelings get triggered.
And how you can control your feeling.
When we know this of our self, then we can find the other person in someone else.
Then you would look to the facts and ignore your feelings, even when someone stands naked in front of you.
The truth would lead you out of that darkness, so you can discover the light.
So you can find out who your potential partner is and you then have the choice to choose him/her for the future.
if that person is ignorant regard the spirit then he/she still can learn to discover himself and then still be your partner for the future.
But many people had been hurt in the past and blame their behavior on the past, and these people need to stand open for a chance and if not then they will destroy your life.
It is because of this that many marriage end up in divorce and the children will feel the pain of the troubles of their parents.
And these children s are the next generation for the future.
While this all can change.
The only thing people need to do is find their self.
And find someone else who also find him self or who stand open to find himself.
Then two spirits can be heavenly bounded to one.
And this is from my point of view the true meaning of marriage.
Two persons find their soul or spirit and they can move mountains.
